There is this topic I want to hit on today, there something called true love which very hyped this past few months , it’s maybe because I am in that age to say so when most of my friends are in a committed relationship and they believe that they have found the one . And then there is me , the most insecure person you could ever meet. I am so scared of screwing things that I rehearse my order at mc d 10 times before going to the counter. So there was this girl who I liked , a lot but due to this insecurity I could never tell her , anyhow that’s a story for another time.Coming back, true love is a very very different topic to discuss, there is no one definition, there just simply not, every single person has his or her own views on what it is, how dose it feels like , is it good , is it bad, is it an emotion or a state.
So let’s try to figure this out, shall we.
So to start with a generic definition of love: An emotion that helps justify once most stupid acts. Now at first you might disagree with me but just think about it how else will you justify binge drinking sessions and sleepless nights over a person how doesn’t even care about your existence. So yes, that’s the definition we are going forward with. There is this culture I am seeing recently that people try to give solace to a broken heart by making happy ending movies such as half girlfriend, it does nothing except giving a person false hopes that someday somewhere you will find that special someone you have been looking for. It never really happens, I am still in my late teens, haven’t seen the world yet, but I have asked around a bunch of people , and I haven’t got one person who would say that once a person is gone he/she returns. There is this line from this song “zindgi da ki ee, Lang jau gi, je tu hundi ta gal hor honi si” which roughly translates to “life is life and it will move on but you had been here life could have been something different ” . Look in this line, the poet has so beautifully described his state , he knows that she is not coming back still he is trying to imagine the possibility and cherishing that situation in his mind. Love kinda sorta does that to you.